Dec 9, 2020
Thoughts on the RD conflict
- Q1 relating to frustration
- It appears that my participation in the group frustrates you. Do you see this in a good or bad way, or both?
- Q2 relating to expectation
- It appears that there is a level of expectation as to how I or others respond towards what is put out. What do you think would happen if you were met with only that of your expectation?
- Q3 relating to trust
- I heard an appearance of breakdown in trust. What would be required to repair that level of trust?
- What is uncomfortable for me?
- It frustrates me that we cannot spend our time examining our higher selves
- I believe it it because we are spending too much/all our time expressing our lower confused unhealthy selves
- I realise identifying our unhealthy selves is a process we all need to go through. However:
- This space was not designed as a therapy session of which I feel it is being abused as one due to the parameters
- We are not trained to be therapists (yet) and so asking us to be one and to cover this ground is a tall order
- What can I do to relieve my frustration?
- Let go of my ambition and wait patiently
- Meet your frustration
- Danger of reinforcing it if you are unwilling to meet
- Expose my frustration
- Opens the door for adult conversation
- Find a bridge to help us both transcend this frame
